Get to know the real you, because the real you is the part of yourself that you know and that emanates your self.
You should know on what is your identity, because identity is the thing that helps you on how you can portray yourself, how you can deal with yourself, and how you talk and socialize with other people.
This is the thing that you need to know because this is you. You should not go ahead and know other people if you haven’t known yourself thoroughly.
The first thing that you need to do is to assess yourself, know what is your strengths, your weaknesses, your likes, what makes you happy, what makes you sad, those kinds of things that you can think of. Get to know the real you because you are carrying yourself.
Know how you are going to portray yourself, how you are going to carry yourself. Of course, you do not need to make yourself different, just know what you really are, do not be plastic, do not be someone else, just be yourself, and you will see what you really are.
It is in identifying yourself that will lead you to a proper life, the right life, the successful life, because identifying yourself is what you need to do so that you can chose your networks and you can choose the people whom you spend time with.